ML, I genuinely don’t understand just why you’ve waited 9 months without some concrete knowledge of why this woman is causing you to wait that very long. Could it be spiritual? Has she had a traumatic expertise in her past which makes her afraid? Does she have medical issues she’s concerned about sharing? There might be a justification but you deserve an obvious “why” in the end this time around. It’s extremely uncommon for grownups to hold back this long. If you can’t have a significant, 
truthful, adult discussion about that I question whether you’re a great match for the long term. It’s time, I Do Believe. Most Readily Useful. Bp
Go on.I try not to wait long.3 dates.A woman knows.There is not any need in waiting you can loose your possible match. possessed a woman try to make me personally wait. We happened to be strait up.Told her i realize your game but making me wait is going to make me personally loose interest.Now I came across a small business woman from Beijing she actually is 27.The other girl is 42.I am 39.Now from day one.Then a younger better woman came along with more to offer and no games.After meeting a couple of times.We dove head 1st.Now I am dating her fulltime.I value my time and have so little of it to give away so it is important it is not wasted with games like this.This is like women PUA stuff.Honestly I am happy she made me wait.I never would have found the one I am with now.I have higher value with the other woman.Women if you feel us make the plunge not all guys are players.We just move different.We are super sexual.The wait will only make us leave after getting sex,or leave before.A guy who waits to long has no real options.I believe because I speak well and have white strait teeth no tatts Im no thug I get a label or the nice guy…I am not nice.I am fare.Anyway much love and good luck ladies that I have started dating this other woman she is trying hard to give me sex but the wait just was to long.She believed that if I waited it would make me have more desire fir her…wrong I lost my passion for her.I was legit smitten with her.
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